In the last few days through social media, I”ve learned about:
* The birth of one baby.
* The future birth of another.
* The death of George Steinbrenner.
* How a friend is coping with losing his mother.
* Another cool event coming to Oklahoma City.
* The excellence of Old Spice.
* Poor service at a restaurant I love.
* The fumbling of the iPhone 4″s problems.
* A friend”s intolerance to poorly constructed Stormtrooper costume.
* Ways to give back to my community.
* And the movies my friends like, just in case I would rather just escape.
I”ve learned these things from my friends, their friends, traditional media sources and blogs. I”ve read about them on Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn; seen them on YouTube or the Huffington Post.
Would I have known these things if I hadn”t been plugged in and engaged? Perhaps. Maybe. Eventually.
Why have social networking as a tool in your life? Because it brings the world — from your friend”s allergy problems to the oil spill in the gulf — right to your pocket.
What have you learned this week?
This weekend is my 20th high school reunion. As the planning has heated up, many of my former classmates and I have been connecting on Facebook.
We”ve been chatting back and forth, sharing old photos and catching up.
Essentially, the reunion has been rolling online for months. Saturday night at a hotel in Springfield, Mo., will just be the culmination.
But it got me to thinking about the impact Facebook has had on events like this.
Is there really a point to a reunion anymore?
Sure, it will be fun to catch up and see who is rounder in the middle and thinner on the top. But it”s not like my parent”s time where a 10- or 20-year reunion solved the mystery of what your former friends were up to.
Often, these are http://www.phpaide.com/forum.php?langue=fr now people I interact with every day. I”ve seen their kids grow up in photos, I hear about the highs and lows of their days and try not to miss a birthday or celebration.
So is that a good thing?
How can it not be? If anything these relationships, which once hung on by a tenuous thread during times apart have strengthened. When we see one another this week, we will be able to pick immediately up on conversations we were having the day before. Even when we”ve been apart, we”ve been able to share moments of sadness and moments of joy.
Facebook sometimes gets knocked for its size, inane games and omnipresence.
But if it”s able to take connections and make them at least last longer or, in special cases, deeper, then how can we not appreciate it as another triumph of the social web.
As far as all those former high schoolers go. I can”t wait to see you. But please, don”t tag me in any photos. It”s not pretty.
So there”s this moment. It comes after someone dives into the deep end of the social media pool. They”ve got their accounts set up, a stylin” website and are ready to turn the Internet into their baby.
Then it hits – what am I going to say?
That”s a decision that gets my blood pumping and one I know I”m going to enjoy talking to people about here with Smirk New Media.
Content Strategy is, simply enough, figuring out the answer to “what am I going to say?”
The answer? Say whatever http://www.phpaide.com/?langue=fr&id=16 is it is that no one else in the world can say better than you.
Everyone has expertise. Your mom, your plumber, your sister, the guy who mows your yard, your pastor and YOU.
That”s what you Tweet, Facebook and blog about because that”s what people are following you for. If I want the expertise of Seth Godin, I follow him. But if I want the expertise of a small business owner in Edmond who is going to explain how she gets customers and keeps them in this economy only one person may fill that role.
Think about what interests you. Think about what excites you. Think about what you talk to your friends about. Think about what you share.
Your content is the information that makes you special. It”s what makes you who you are.
Now all you have to do to give it to the world — in 140 characters or, in this case, 245 words.
Welcome to the first day of business for Smirk New Media, my step of faith into the world of independent consulting.
Before I get into dispensing daily doses of social media on this blog, I just wanted the address what makes me hopeful about not just this business but about new media, social networking and our real-life community.
As I led up to this decision, I prayed a lot — about what I had to offer people and what kind of support I would get. The answers kept pointing back to my network, both online and off.
When people ask me about who they should follow online, my answer is that you should follow someone who helps you in some way — through insightful posts, interesting information, offline friendship or potential business.
I’ve tried to turn the people I followed on Twitter into real flesh-and-blood relationships. I wanted to meet these folks, understand them and connect with them. If you were on a “twitter blind date” you know what I mean.
Those connections have really helped me in this transition. People have been encouraging, wise, helpful and hopeful. The honest reactions I’ve gotten from my network provide the firm footing underneath these next few steps for me and my family.
I think this is a unique Oklahoma phenomenon. Social media use in Oklahoma City is a reflection of the giving nature of our people and our community.
I want my business to reflect that community.
You’ll find me talking a lot about helping on this blog, because that’s our bottom line at Smirk. We want to help businesses, partners and our community succeed.
Thanks for being on this journey. Can’t wait to see where it goes.
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